Pick the right girl. It doesn't matter what's on the outside, it matters what's on the inside. She would probably turn out to be kinda cute or pretty though, but always look on the inside. Get a girl that you can trust and has a good reputation. You probably don't want someone you don't find physically attractive to be your girlfriend, but you also don't want someone who is only pretty on the outside either. Be wise about who you choose.
Start a conversation. If you're shy, try just walking up to her and saying "Hi!" at lunch or in the hall. If she's hanging out with her friends try to at least talk to her or try to catch her eye while walking past. If you know her to have a sense of humor try to say something that will make her laugh. Try an "agreement hug" as a way of flirting. When you both agree on something in a conversation, invite her to bring it in for a hug.
Remember that girls like people that have good hygiene. You should shower a lot and do not put too much cologne or perfume on. You may think it smells good but it may be a little strong and the girl might be scared to go around you.
Watch for signs. If she tries to flirt, that's a good sign. She likes you too. Don't try to ask her out right there though. She might say no because she just started liking you.
Start texting or emailing each other. Ask her if she has a phone. If she says yes ask her for her phone number. Make sure that you're building your friendship through in-person interactions, too. It's easy to run into miscommunications when you're chatting over text.
Ask her out! If she says yes then ask her if she wants to go somewhere like the movies. If she says no then ask if it was awkward for her. That will cool her off. She will probably laugh and say kinda.
Try again if she says no, but wait for a couple of weeks. If she still says no, leave her alone. It's her decision whether or not she wants to date you. If she doesn't there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
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